Boy Friends

Michael Pedersen

An intimate and original memoir of love, grief and male friendship by one of Scotland’s brightest young talents.

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An intimate and original memoir of love, grief and male friendship by one of Scotland’s An intimate and original memoir of love, grief and male friendship by one of Scotland’s brightest young talents.

‘As perfect a portrait of friendship as I’ve ever read.’

‘Lucid, lyrical, loaded . . . A love letter to friendship.’

‘A lovely book: bright and heartfelt, funny and refreshing.’

‘A beautiful, moving, life-affirming book.’

Friendships might just be the greatest love affairs of our lives . . .

In 2018 poet and author Michael Pedersen lost a cherished friend, Scott Hutchison, soon after their collective voyage into the landscape of the Scottish Highlands. Just weeks later, Michael began to write to him. As he confronts the bewildering process of grief, what starts as a love letter to one magical, coruscating human soon becomes a paean to all the gorgeous male friendships that have transformed his life.

‘Boy Friends sees Pedersen illuminate these companions with a poet’s eye, a comedian’s timing – and a lover’s care.’

‘Pedersen is an enthralling narrator and his prose is poetic, written with enough electricity that it seems to jolt off the page. It is riotously funny . . . Boy Friends opens up conversations about vulnerable subjects: the brunt of suicide, the circumstances of certain types of Scottish masculinity and where friendships fit into that.’

Critic Reviews

Enchanting and astonishingly compelling . . . A friend is a masterpiece of nature, Emerson said — and this book is as perfect a portrait of that natural masterpiece as I have ever read.

Stephen Fry
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Lucid, lyrical, loaded, Boy Friends is a love letter to friendship. Michael Pedersen hauntingly captures the exhilaration and the romance of fine friendship and the terror and bewilderment at the loss of it. Boy Friends is gut-wrenching and yet gallus too - taking us on a rollercoaster journey of love and loss that makes you say to yourself, more than once, yes, that's it exactly.

Jackie Kay
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Boy Friends is a lovely book: bright and heartfelt, funny and refreshing. I greatly enjoyed reading it.

Andrew O'Hagan
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A beautiful, moving, life-affirming book about a beautiful, moving, life-affirming friendship.

Ian Rankin
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A tender, funny rebuttal to toxic masculinity. It lifted my spirits in the way Ali Smith does.

Val McDermid
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As tender as honeysuckle and as bracing as a Hebridean beach; Boy Friends makes you feel as if you've gone on a holiday with someone dazzling.

Mark Cousins

MICHAEL PEDERSEN is a prize-winning Scottish poet and author. His second collection, Oyster (2017), was a collaboration with Scott Hutchison of Frightened Rabbit. He has been awarded a Robert Louis Stevenson Fellowship, among other accolades. Pedersen also co-founded Neu! Reekie!, a prize-winning arts collective known for producing cutting edge shows across Scotland and the world.

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